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IT IS A CHURCH
to which the existing congregation are very committed, due to the
nature of the past. During the 1960s and 1970s many of our congregation
experienced the bombing of their businesses in the city, intimidation
out of their homes, and remarkable inconvenience just to get to
church on a Sunday. There were numerous searches and checkpoints
around the city and it took literally hours to get to church. This
has left its mark on this church. Many young families moved out
of the Cityside of Derry, and made their homes on the Waterside,
also changing their church allegiance. We lost numerous young families
in this way. Others moved too but out of loyalty to St. Augustines
retained their membership and were extremely faithful in attendance
and participation in church life. Nowadays, only a handful of families
remain on the Cityside, most of whom live in The Fountain, a Protestant
enclave within the walls. Again, on a regular basis, these parishioners
and other families in the Fountain experience petrol bombs, paint
bombs, and general mayhem lobbed from the city walls onto the estate.
It is a distressing and wearying experience, although we are hopeful
that our political new era will minimise this threat.
The loss of
many young families led, in recent decades, to the church becoming
a more elderly congregation. This has been difficult to change although
several young families have joined very recently. It is difficult
to get an elderly congregation to embrace or even want change and
it is difficult to make things happen without younger members alongside
the older ones. The congregation would be the first to acknowledge
this. We are faced with several issues: How do we go about making
changes in church life that will attract new members, but retain
our existing and very loyal congregation? How do we reach out into
a community that is, in some cases, the business community, and
located in residential areas perceived as the other side?
Why is it so difficult to get churches and clergy to work together
in an area where, although most congregations are declining in number,
they remain territorial? There are four Cityside Church of Ireland
churches in Derry and there is little appetite for teamwork.
One of my main
concerns is, quite frankly, trying to do too much. I have plenty
of vision I can see what could and what should happen but,
in staff terms, there is only me. We have run Alpha Courses and
various other adult education courses, we have started a new congregation
in the newly refurbished Diocesan Offices, and we have started a
series of house groups. But much need remains I need someone
to develop childrens and youth work. I need someone to oversee
the running of the new congregation. As you will all be aware, these
days even committed members of congregations are busy people and
by the time they work, look after their own families and worship,
they are exhausted!! There is a limit to what you can ask them to
do with you. Yet there is no chance of change without a team, I
am acutely aware of that. This was brought home last year with a
visit to our new partnership with a Parish in Bristol Diocese, Malmesbury
Abbey. Our visits to Malmesbury have been great and an eye-opener
to our own visiting team who saw the reality of progress. Malmesbury
has a vicar, a youth worker, a minister for the elderly, an administrator,
a staff member who looks after the house groups
I confess to
leaving sick with envy!!
I am very hopeful
for the future. An optimist by nature, I really believe it can be
done. With help, I would love to initiate a community project where
we were engaging in a real way with our neighbours. I would love
to reach out to the business community. I would love to run a cross-community
Alpha Course in the city. There is so much that needs doing especially
in an increasingly secular and multi-ethnic city and yet
so frustrating that at the moment, I have to recognise the limitations
of a staff of one. The vision is there; executing it may be somewhat
challenging!
Recently, with
the help of a facilitator, we undertook a Parish Development Plan,
which I found extremely helpful. We focussed on five agreed areas
and made an action plan (which, believe it or not, we are actually
doing!). We are making progress, but we have a long way to go. Leadership
training has helped me to recognise that I need to focus on doing
a few things well but I cannot do everything (and stay sane!).
Building a dynamic team will be the key to survival, and much more
growth, development and vibrancy. Am I between a rock and
a hard place? Or might it be that it is God who is in control here?
PAT STOREY
lives presently in Derry, is married to Earl and has two teenage
children. She loves her family, her food, her dog, walking and swimming
(probably in that order!). She loves to read and is a member of
a local book club, and also writes as a hobby and has joined a Creative
Writing course here in the city. She believes in the church.
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