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review:
A Heart to Listen: Becoming a listening person in a noisy world
REVIEWED BY LYNNE LIVINGSTONE
THE AUTHOR
of this book was previously Deputy Director of the Acorn Christian
Foundation which heads up Christian Listeners. As a boss and as
a friend, he encapsulated all the qualities of a listener that are
rarely found in a noisy and superficial world.
In this captivating
book he invites you to take a journey of discovery about what lies
at the heart of listening. In doing so you will realise how difficult
and how rewarding becoming a good listener is.
The clever
use of a narrative tale, running through the book, serves as a parable
to convey the main theme of each chapter. It is entirely fictional
and based in Africa where what he experienced had a profound effect
on him.
It explores
how with Gods help we can relearn the art of listening and
develop a heart that naturally listens. In doing so we can become
a source of help and healing for others and for ourselves.
Despite the
fact that it is really not difficult to learn to listen well, most
of us find all kinds of Ivory Towers to retreat to,
and fail to give the level of listening that is so badly needed.
Chapter 3 helps us to identify what our Ivory Towers are and
how we can come down from them. We will all recognise ourselves
here!
In our society,
encountering difference is something we are all familiar with. When
we meet someone who is different, we are given a choice, to retreat
to safety or to encounter the unknown. Michael explores how listening
is a true expression of agape love that if we
are disciples of Jesus we are required to listen to our enemy,
the one who is different to us, whose values we dont share,
who annoys us. You know, the one who just has to open his mouth
for us to know that what he says is wrong! He shows that by listening
to someone we can actually start to meet the person rather than
the argument. Perhaps
then the mechanism for reconciliation can be put into place?
It helps us
to think about our wounded planet and open our ears to those in
the particularly troubled areas of our world.
I think, above
all, this book will surprise many, as it uncovers the enormous depths
and profound impact that something so simple as listening
can have on each one of us and the people we encounter. They will
also discover, as many have done, that listening is one of the most
healing and precious gifts that anyone can possess. That we can
each be the ears of the body of Christ so that people know they
are not alone!
This book is
an easy read, in short chapters that you can absorb, a bit at a
time. But I doubt that you will be able to put it down. It will
inspire and challenge. But it will also remind us that listening
is a ministry committed to us by Him who is Himself the great listener
and whose work we should all share.
LYNNE LIVINGSTONE
is Co-ordinator of Christian Listeners Ireland.
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